What do you do when you are married to your best friend, have the things you truly need, and Christmas is coming? What do I buy for Sandy? What does Sandy buy for me?
It wasn’t so hard when we were friends in college. We didn’t have any money, so we each bought a simple, thoughtful gift. Then came the years when we worked downtown and had the ability to shop alone. The gifts expanded. Things began to change when we moved into our own office, worked together, and were blessed with a child.
Neither of us had the opportunity to shop alone, and neither of us really needed much. Thus was born the Day Together at Christmas. Each year we took a day off, and while our son was in school we went for a day together. We helped each other select a personal Christmas gift. It was a magical day to which we both looked forward each year. Time together, a nice lunch, and the fun of shopping together. “You would look really good in this.” “Would you like to have that Snoopy sweater?”
The Day Together continues. Saturday we went to Disney Springs, and it was a wonderful day. Warm and sunny. Lunch outside at Blaze Pizza. We split a nice salad and a small pizza. We drank Coke Zero, watched the people, and listened to the joyful music and chatter of thousands of tourists. And just talked with each other about Christmas and nice things.
Then it was off to walk (and roll) around and enjoy the holiday decorations. There is a huge Christmas tree in the square that is without a doubt the most marvelous Christmas tree I’ve ever seen. Huge balls, each lighted by an Edison bulb, prisms, and mirrors make the tree unique.A couple of times we stopped and enjoyed the day in the sun. As we were headed toward the car in the late afternoon, I saw a new stand that I wanted to visit. Thirty minutes later it was starting to get dark, so we decided to stay and see the lights. Back to Blaze Pizza! (We like their pizza!) After looking at the lights, which were reminiscent of the small towns in which we grew up, we headed home. Long, long day. Together at Christmas. With all else put aside, we gave ourselves the best gift of all, a day together to celebrate our lives together and the blessings of this amazing season.
I wish each of you a Happy Hanukkah and a Merry Christmas. May you be blessed with joy and love.
Pictures: Top photo is a large topiary of Mickey Mouse. He is pouring water into a large jug. The water is then cascading from container to container. He is wearing a red Santa hat with a white, fur band. Photo on the left is Sandy sanding in front of 2 large snowmen. They are made of white and red balls. The female has a red hat, and the male has a black top hat. Sandy is wearing a green shirt, white jeans, and blue skimmers. Photo on the right is George sitting in front of some large tree ornaments and surrounded by potted poinsettias and other blooming plants. He is wearing a green shirt, jeans, white Converse shoes, and a tan visor. Fourth photo is the top portion of a large Christmas tree rising above the rooftops.
I love the way you speak about your wife and I think it is so cool that you two have carried on your tradition of spending a day together……….so special!
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Thank you. We can get to the shopping center or Target. What we have difficulty getting is a day. It’s special to us.
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I think this is wonderful………..bless you both!
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“Day Together at Christmas” – What a lovely idea, that really is the best present. And the answer is always yes to the question ‘would you like that Snoopy sweater’? 😀
Thanks for sharing this, it’s such a warm reminder of what we should be grateful for and cherish at this time of year xx
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There was a Snoopy sweater in my past. I wore it even when it had holes in it. If I could ever find another……
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Yes hubby and I don’t buy each other anything, we go out for a meal together and sit chatting, looking into each others eyes and just being happy to be together.
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Yes, at some point we don’t need or want things. What we do need, we pick up as we go along. What we do need is each other. Enjoy!
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What a lovely post George. You and Sandy are indeed blessed. A Day Together at Christmas sounds wonderful. Happy Holidays to you both.
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Thank you, Brigid. We have done things from shopping centers to Disney, and once we took a cruise (not an every year thing, lol). Happy Holidays to you, as well.
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I really enjoy reading these posts about you and Sandy it’s not only heartwarming but also a window into your into your deep love for one another. Merry Christmas 🎄
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Thanks, Steph. The original premise of the blog was what it is really like to live on wheels. Mostly it is family and friends just like everyone else. The wheels are the elephant in the room but aren’t our lives. What is better than salad and pizza together for lunch and then spontaneously going back for pizza for dinner. Simple fun. Merry Christmas to you, too!
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I love the thought of a “Day Together At Christmas”. What a lovely way to spend the day with a loved one who’s presence enough is a gift ❤. Beautiful.
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Love, friendship, and time together. I’m feeling very blessed. Thanks for your kind words.
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George, wishing you and your wife a Merry Christmas and Much Love!! As to what to get someone who you’ve been with a long time as a Christmas present, that’s a tough one indeed! I have the same problem. (((HUGS))) Amy 💝
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This sounds like a lovely way to share the holidays! Also, I was just at Disney Springs on 12/7! We just missed each other.
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Wow! We did just miss each other! Do you have a favorite eatery.
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I don’t. But while there, we are at The Boathouse, which was nice!
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A belated Merry Christmas to you and Sandy, with a most wonderful 2019 ahead!
This is a beautiful Christmas tradition and actually made my heart happy reading this. The gift of one another is more precious than any materialistic one out there.
Much love to you and your family George xoxox
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Thank you, Sassy. I believe the greatest blessing a person can receive is to be married to one’s best friend. Happy New Year.
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